I believe the time is near…

Posted in Happy as Hell on March 19, 2010 by Fiel John Meria

All good things come to an end. Whether that end is a peaceful one or not is up to the choices we make.

This blog was created in attempt to see the world as it is and to appreciate all its parts – evil and good at the same time. The result did not disappoint – for as I browse through its entries it encompasses real things such as college basketball, gaming, dating, personal life and a bunch of other things.

I was comfortable just watching the world and putting a small piece of it into this blog. I loved how it reflects different sides of me and how so many topics it covered. For this I am happy.

But alas I believe that time has come to an end. I believe that the time is now ripe for me to be creating my own mark in the world by creating focus in my life.

As I turn 23, I want it to be in order that I take the notch up higher as I enter this more focused part of my life.

A new blog, a new approach to my own life. Will be in order soon enough. :)

Fiel: Rebirth

Posted in Happy as Hell on March 1, 2010 by Fiel John Meria

COMING SOON.

Wait for it…

NOW.

It comes only in a few moments where the true beauty of life is glimpsed a bit more. Each glimpse is only more potent than the one before it – and each time there is a feeling of rebirth.

January 31 2009 was a day I coined as the Day of Courage. To take life as it is – to face fear & uncertainty with a clear head and a peaceful heart. To make what is the right decision and not succumb to mere emotions or ideals.

But what is courage when there is nothing to act on? No goal in sight? No giant to slay? No road to drive on?
Courage is a valuable asset and yet, it does little without something to act on. Courage without anything else is like a cooking pot without anything to cook with.

The ingredient courage is used for in my humble opinion is creativity. Creativity is an asset or a skill or a trait or whatever you call it. It is easy to be creative but it needs boldness to make it work.

Put courage and creativity together and you have the ability to adapt, renew and frankly, kick some ass.

February 28 2010 – Day of Rebirth.

Pain.

Posted in Proactive Reactions on February 7, 2010 by Fiel John Meria

Is a hindrance to sleep.
Is worst when you are alone.
Is inevitable.
Is apparently, life’s cruel practical joke. The punchline is that you get it coz you don’t expect it.

Won’t get the best of me.

I swear it.

What makes a man?

Posted in Happy as Hell with tags on January 31, 2010 by Fiel John Meria

Today is our officially proclaimed “Day of Courage” – only for a few people.

And what a fitting day it is. When two men can throw down the gauntlet, let the dust settle and show mutual respect in the end. Knowing that sometimes, it’s not what a man learns to keep, but what he learns to let go of.

I’m not God. If I were, then there are many things I would have changed around here myself. But they didn’t. Things keep haunting you and keep coming back. Sometimes we all try to be humble and lower down pride, but end up doing the exact opposite.

When things go like this, a man learns what he’s made of. We can’t control what happens to us, but we can control how to respond to this.

Courage maketh a man.

ALL WILL BE WELL!

What hurts us the most…

Posted in Happy as Hell with tags on January 28, 2010 by Fiel John Meria

…is something we probably can’t imagine. We must learn to accept that life will give us the most painful of blows when we are at our highest points – when we least expect it.

This is where I learned to be humble. To know that not even love can conquer all. To know to role of our choices balanced with our feelings. To know that we can’t make the right moves all the time and react in the way we should have. To know that there are simply some things in life that we will regret. To know that some of the most valuable lessons in life are also the most painful.

I think I failed recently. I failed to understand and be patient. I failed to be humble. I failed myself. For a while back I wanted to roundhouse kick myself in the face for all these failures. Good thing that a few important people in my life made me realize where I didn’t fail.

They said I didn’t fail to love.

To those who saw me disappear like I usually do for a few days, know that for the first time I didn’t do this for my own selfish reasons. To find meaning, to bathe in solitude, etc etc like I usually do when I go out of sight & out of mind for some time. This time around, I did it for someone else. I did it for love. I know this is true because I wasn’t aware of this until those who truly knew me pointed it out.

Funny how I am usually confused as to what love is – and still am. But I am at peace that this is indeed true. For making me realize this, I thank these people with all my heart. You know who you are.

This is one of the greatest, most profound feelings I have ever had in my life. For this reason, I simply believe that there must be a God. I don’t believe in a life of too much coincidence – only a life of faith.

All will be well!

Just one of those nights

Posted in Happy as Hell with tags , , , , on January 9, 2010 by Fiel John Meria

Don’t you ever get those nights that there is something inside you that is screaming like hell, and unless there was a way for you to “get it out there”, you are going to stay awake for some time? Tonight is just one of those nights.

Despite the fact that I came from a very tiring overnight but no sleeping party at my best friend’s home the night before, from my niece / goddaughter’s 7th birthday celebration a few hours ago and therefore almost no sleep at all, I am still in this predicament. I’m almost quite sure I’m the only person involved in all these events who still hasn’t hit the hay. I guess it is quite true that the mind rules over the body. If the former gets no rest, then neither does the latter.

Then, I remembered a moment I shared with an awesome musician friend during the aforementioned overnight party. I had been arguing to him about the stuff I thought about music. The topic is a bit complicated, and thus I will just try to do justice to the point of what he said: that music that comes from the heart is good music.

And indeed as I pour my heart out into this post, I thought of a little something different to try. Basically, I am gonna use self-therapy on myself by making some music “that comes from my heart” even if I am NOWHERE near being a musician. So I decided to sing my heart out on a recording song from Karaokeplay.com (LOLOLOLOLOL!!! try the site it is very addicting.)

It wasn’t hard to pick a song – basically I didn’t want it to be too hard and that the lyrics should be saying pretty much what I’m feeling. So I chose a song from a movie I recently watched from the daily download list – Way Back into Love by Hugh Grant & Drew Barrymore. After a few tries of recording, adjusting the lame speakers on my notebook and keeping juuust the right distance from my built in generic microphone, I came up with a recording that seemed ok. SEEMED OK is the right phrase – I don’t know how people will receive it since I’m one of the worst judges of any work I do on my own.

So here’s some courage for ya – the link to my recording!

One last thing, thank you to all the special people that shared their moments with me in the last two days. It was epic – seriously. I feel like I’m about to really live a life now.

Time to go to sleep.

Fiel’s Ondoy Moment

Posted in Proactive Reactions with tags , , , , on November 2, 2009 by Fiel John Meria

I know it’s a bit late right now. But I feel that there some things better said late, than not said at all. Ondoy was devastating. I feel it really brought us Manilenos out of our shells by making us feel what less developed sectors of our country experience pretty much on a yearly basis.

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My village in Filinvest Homes East Marcos Highway wasn’t one to be spared by the floods. People who lived in single floor houses had to count on the hospitality of our neighbors. In our own home, the flood almost reached the second floor. All of our cars were submerged and I was stuck on the second floor with my family, the household help, a couple of kind strangers who came our way and my cousins.

One of my closest cousins, Reginald Meria who was 5 years my junior was worried sick for his older brother, Ren-Ren Meria who unfortunately, went to school at University of Sto. Tomas (UST) was was last heard stuck without food in the Dominican residence. By the time we had lost contact with Ren-Ren, (in the cutting off of electricity, power, signal and phone lines) none of us had informed Ren-Ren that our village was pretty much inaccesible. This was friday night at the height of the storm.

Morning came and the rains have stopped, I looked outside and it was unbelievable. The village looked like a river – some cars had drifted away, some people were already using boats and people were walking shoulder-high on the main road. I thought the water would have evaporated by then – but that was my elitist-ignorant head talking. (It didn’t evaporate for a looong time). I guess for the most of us in the Metro Manila area, this is God’s lesson on Humility 101.

Speaking of lessons, I’m here to write about my Ondoy Moment. For a good number of my friends unaffected by the flood, their moments were the service they rendered to the victims such as helping out in relief operations and the like. For these people you know who you are, you are awesome. For a good number of my family members, it was when they had to rebuild – have the cars fixed, clean out the houses, etc. Yep, I shared a lot of these moments with them.

But my favorite moment, MY moment was when me and Reg were outside walking in the flood that Saturday noon, and we caught sight our his Kuya Ren-Ren hugging his backpack who had trudged all the way from UST, walked across the flooded Marcos Highway famished and hadn’t eaten for over a day.

I was just lucky enough to have my camera with me to capture it:

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Yes, our cars were all rended useless for a while and I had to commute against overwhelming MRT odds in those two weeks that followed Ondoy. Yes, we lost a lot of stuff. Capturing this moment though, kind of takes that pain away from us. (Self-explanatory) ;D

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